Have you ever had one of those “wow, I can’t believe this is happening!” moments? That was me on January 9, 2025, when my cousin, Tiffany, and I attended Ramit Sethi’s Money for Couples tour at Chicago’s iconic House of Blues.
Little did I know, this evening would not only teach me valuable insights into personal finance but also become a story of courage, vulnerability, and taking a chance on something new.
How We Ended Up at the Show?
My cousin, who’s been a big fan of Ramit for a while now, was the one who introduced me to him. She was raving about his practical approach to money and relationships and insisted I dive into his work. Which I did and was happy that I did.
Naturally, when she told me about his tour, we jumped at the chance to go together! It’s funny how a simple conversation about money can spark such an exciting journey.
We had no idea what to expect—just that we’d be sitting in the same room as a group of like-minded people all eager to learn how to manage money better as couples. Ramit’s books and content had already gotten my attention, so the thought of seeing him live, in person, was pretty cool!
The Couple Who Opened Up About Their Finances
The event kicked off with a live session featuring a real-life couple who had the courage to stand up and openly discuss their finances in front of a crowd. Imagine that—sharing intimate details about their money struggles, goals, and the decisions they were making to improve their financial future. I honestly can’t even imagine how intimidating that must have been. But the way they handled it was so admirable.
Their authenticity, humor, and vulnerability made the event truly special. Not only did they provide practical insights into how they manage money as a couple, but they also showed us that it’s okay to be imperfect. It was an inspiring reminder that no one has it all figured out, and it’s the willingness to try, do, and learn that truly matters.
VIP Meet & Greet: The Highlight of the Night
As if the event wasn’t already amazing, there was a VIP meet and greet afterward, which was an absolute game-changer. Ramit was there, signing books and chatting with us. Now, if you’re familiar with Ramit’s work, you know he’s all about actionable advice, not fluff. So, getting the chance to talk to him one-on-one was incredibly motivating.
It wasn’t just about getting my book signed (although that was pretty neat, too!). It was the conversations we had—the chance to ask questions, hear about Ramit’s journey, and get personal tips for making our own money relationships stronger. He made it feel so easy, like we were just having a casual chat over coffee. That interaction was a powerful reminder of the impact that taking bold steps—like attending a financial event or starting tough conversations—can have on your life.
The Unexpected Podcast Fame
Here’s where it gets even more interesting. A few weeks after the event, I stumbled across not one, but two Ramit podcasts where I spotted myself. Once “backstage” chatting with Ramit & Tiffany, and the other one in the crowd. Yes, there I was, on his podcast, from that event. You may call it “lame”, but I call it “fame”.
I honestly had no idea I’d end up making a cameo. But what was even more fun? One of my coworkers recognized me when she caught the podcast episode. How wild is that? It was a small moment of celebrity, and I couldn’t help but laugh at how far-reaching those kinds of experiences can go when you just show up and be present.
What I Learned: Go Try, Do, and Take Action
So, what does this all mean? Sure, I could write a traditional review about Ramit’s event and how educational it was, but there’s a deeper, more impactful takeaway here. The real lesson from that night wasn’t about learning the perfect budget strategy or the best ways to save—it was about the willingness to *try*, *do*, and step out of your comfort zone.
That couple who shared their financial journey? They took the bold step of being vulnerable in front of strangers. Ramit Sethi himself? He constantly pushes us to take action and create the financial lives we want, even if it feels intimidating at first. And me? I took a chance on attending an event I wasn’t sure about, and it turned into a series of unexpected, unforgettable experiences.
A Call to Action
The next time you find yourself hesitating about something—whether it’s attending an event, trying a new strategy, or even having an uncomfortable conversation—remember the story of that couple. Remember the story of me showing up to Ramit Sethi’s event and how it turned into so much more than just a financial seminar. It became a story of action, courage, and stepping into something new.
I’m not saying everyone should rush to attend a financial event. But I am saying that the act of stepping into the unknown, of trying something new, is one of the most empowering things you can do. Whether it’s taking control of your finances, learning how to communicate better with your partner, or simply being open to new experiences—go try, do, and see where it takes you.
You never know what kind of opportunities might come from just showing up. So, what’s stopping you? Take the leap. You might surprise yourself.
Attending the “Money for Couples” tour was an experience I’ll never forget, not just because it was insightful, but because it opened my eyes to how much we can grow when we take action and do something new. Whether you’re tackling money as a couple, pursuing a passion, or taking on a new challenge, remember that it’s all about the journey. Go try, go do, and see how far you can take it.